If you remember the TV show “TheWonder Years” you have a good idea of the narrative voice of Robert Dugoni’s book, The Extraordinary Life of Sam Hell. The story is told through memories of the protagonist detailing the years of torture he endured as a child. The reason for his bullying and mistreatment even by adults is unique indeed. We find that Sam was born with a rare eye condition known as ocular albinism which causes the eye to appear to be red in color. Called “Devil Boy” and treated as a pariah, Sam was a lonely, scared little boy. His mother, his champion, was convinced that her son was born to live an extraordinary life and her total devotion carried him through many difficult times. When teased and called ugly names his mother would lovingly tell him, “Our skin, our hair, and our eyes are simply the shell that surrounds our soul, and our soul is who we are. What counts is on the inside.” Sam did not, however, really believe this or even accept himself or his worth for most of his life. Sam always felt he was unloveable and unworthy of pride in himself. He went from failed relationship to failed relationship even though his two lifelong friends tried to tell him he could and should stand up for himself. He eventually decided to leave his depressing life choosing instead to dedicate himself to helping others working as an eye surgeon with a group like Doctors Without Borders. It was on one of these tours that Sam met a young orphan with the same eye condition as his own who was being treated as a outcast just as he had been. Realizing he could change this child’s life, Sam removed his brown contacts and showed the little boy that he was not alone and that he could be extraordinary too. In the end Sam accepted that each of us has the ability to make our lives extraordinary even if we may not all be the first man on the moon or a famous personality. We all are extraordinary when we reflect back over our days and remember the intimate moments that mark not our calendars but our hearts. This was a sweet, heartwarming book that offered a powerful lesson. Really good uplifting read.
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Anxious People by Fredrik Backman
I almost regret writing this post because it means that I am moving on from the book Anxious People and I really hate to leave it. Fredrik Backman is a genius as far as I am concerned. His novel is the most intricately written book that I have read in a long time. Crafted in a nonlinear style that just seems effortless, the story line centers around a hostage situation that we are told in no uncertain terms contains hostages that are the worst in the world. A group of strangers at an open house are taken by surprise by a bank robber/hostage taker who is acting out of fear and desperation but with little real thought of the dangerous consequences. These characters we meet are quirky, curmudgeonly and most of all desperate for love. They are, however, able to bond. The reader learns as the police surround the building and try to ascertain how bad the situation is that people inside are connected in one way or another to a suicide that had happened ten years previously. This other plot feature was woven beautifully into the story. Backman brilliantly adds layer after layer to the story, and with each layer we are given insights to the characters that allow us to build real relationship feelings. This is a story about “idiots” we are told by the narrator, but we learn as the stories progresses that these people are anything but idiotic. Clever and resourceful to a person, they manage to find a solution to their predicament and even save the bank robber/hostage taker in the process.
I laughed out loud at many of the scenes we witnessed and at the conversations that were had by different characters throughout. This novel does have several serious themes such as suicide, depression, marital problems and even that of the world economy and its effects on the ordinary man. These themes were treated with such humanity and thoughtfulness that we are drawn in without realizing we are thinking about such heavy issues. Truly a story that will stay with me for a long time. Maybe the best of Backman to date.
Thursday, September 24, 2020
The Last Romantics by Tara Conklin
Tara Conklin’s examination of the Skinner family in her book The Last Romantics begins in the dystopian future where Fiona Skinner, 102 year old poet of renown, is speaking and answering questions about her body of work and more particularly, her famous piece “The Love Poem.” A young girl’s remarkably familiar looking face sends Fiona’s mind back in time to 1981 when her life and the life of each of her siblings changes forever. It was in 1981 that Fiona’s 31 year old father dies suddenly hurtling the family into chaos. This was the beginning of “The Pause” a three year period where Fiona’s mother goes to her bed and rarely emerges. The four children were for all intents and purposes left to care for themselves and remarkably they survived. That is not to say they thrived as they were all damaged by this time of their life. It actually seemed that they devolved into more of a wolf pack than a family. The oldest sister took total control of the siblings much like the alpha wolf controls their pack. As the alpha, Renee secured the food, determined the pack territory and oversaw its safety; she was in the position to demand complete respect. Caroline, the second oldest, became the caregiver/mother and was dependent on Renee for confirmation and direction. Joe, the lone son, was the darling of the family, the golden child, but he was also the warrior/protector. Fiona, only 4 years old at the time of her father’s death, was the “baby” and therefore not given responsibility. So, for three years this group lived nearly a feral life. Unfortunately, they were so scarred they never really recovered. The description of their lives as they became adults was a picture of estrangement, distance and avoidance. They all seemed to want to be left alone to live disconnected from people even though they were caught up in self destructive lifestyles. This novel was interesting and yet there were too many anomalies in the structure that took away from the overall storyline. Why, for instance, did we have a vague and yet disturbing connection to global warming in the bookend future time at the beginning and ending of the novel? Why the title The Last Romantics when there was little in the book that demonstrated deep love. It seemed the opposite was much more apparent. These characters did not know how to love because they had been forced into a life of survival as children where sadly love was not demonstrated to any of them by the adults with whom they came into contact. This was a book that was a split decision at the very least. The writing was very good, the descriptions were jarringly realistic, but the overall structure left something to be desired.
Wednesday, September 9, 2020
Ask Again, Yes by Mary Beth Keane
I have really scratched my head over Mary Beth Keane’s book, Ask Again, Yes and how to best summarize it. It is really a difficult book to pin down in a short paragraph. I finally decided to just put it out there and let the chips fall where they may. The novel is a well written, compelling character study. You will learn much from this novel about love and hate, mental illness and addiction, jealously and control, abuse and obsession and families with dysfunction. That seems very bleak I realize and much of the story is heartrending at best, but the strong central theme found throughout is that there is love in spite of all the pain. The father figure after his own near death experience, after seeing his daughter struggle with a husband’s alcoholism and after watching most of his friends suffer through tragic life experiences agrees with his wife when she says, “I think we’ve been luckier than most.” Our lives are not promised to have only good times, our lives are not promised to be stress free and our lives are not under our control most of the time. But, we can look back like Keane and say “we have been lucky.”